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I got my ps3 taken away (for weeks), my phone (for good), and the privelage to use the computer (sometimes).
Elaborate on this.
Do groundings and conviscations really improve the childs ability to listen and obey parents?
I really don't think so. It just makes things worse.
i think it makes it worst. its like u dont wanna be near whoever grounded u for awhile.
my mom or dad never grounded me when i was growing up! they pulled out a big ass belt O_o
so its like...
being grounded = very slow pain
taking a whipping = the quick "MOTHAFUCKA-DAT-HURTS" kinda pain (u'll get over this one quicker...well it depends lol)
never been grounded, never had anything taken away or anything like that, i guess i was one of the lucky few to have parents w/o restrictions
I own all the stuff I have, and the way my mom works is, if its mine, she can't touch it.
Therefor, I own my own laptop, I can never be grounded from it.
Same wit PSP
HOWEVER its possible with the PS2 since she brought it for the hole family and its heres.
I have been banned from it for a little while.
When i was living with my dad, i got a nice ass whoopin when i was in trouble, then i'd be taken to the mall or gameworks. I liked that routine
but then i moved with my mom and step dad, it ALL changed.
I used to get beat then I got too big for it to matter. Wouldn't hurt if they tryed. I have little if any restrictions. But I've been grounded before getting shit taken away and privileges taken away makes it worse. It doesn't even stop you from doing it again. Positive Reinforcement is the way to go.
my parents stop whooping me and made pick my own decision(so far im doing good)
hehe, i dont get grounded anymore:). i used to alot, but i guess my parents are getting older:cool:. but i dont think it did anything cus i kept getting grounded.
Positive reinforcement always seems too work.Quote:
Originally Posted by Zeus
I'm gonna give my kids space and respect , (if i decide to have any :biggrin:)
Positive Reinforcement is something I never ever got. I always got beat and or stuff taken away and I have to tell you it sucked and I think shit would have turned out better if I didn't get shit taken away.Quote:
Originally Posted by JooN-YeR
wth did you do to get your shit taken away*and btw unless your parents own and pay in full for it,you get it all back when you turn 18*
My mom got fed up with me and my brothers not obeying her. so she didn't feed us for about 7 hours . So i got pissed and called my aunt/uncle/grandma, and my mom's relationship with her side of the family isn't too swell so she got even more pissed and i got in HELLA trouble.Quote:
Originally Posted by Commander_John.
18 is when i'm getting out. ahha
SyKotik Cannon, you've never been grounded!?Quote:
Originally Posted by SyKotik Cannon
Wow, your lucky are your parents the type who don't believen grounding?
That's kick ass man.
Lemee steal your parents LOL
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Gosh im trying to post in topics and Make actually sence lmfao
I want 50 posts ;P but i still have to relize i cant spam :O
How come I never hear you swear irl(in real life), but on the internet you saywords such as "ass" and "fucka".:huh: Lucky bastard, I only got a fist to the face.Quote:
Originally Posted by SaviorSelf
In my opinion it does the opposite of helping. The child doesn't think "Oh, next time I better not do what I did, or I will lose my stuff." Rather, the thought process goes like this, "Next time I better not get caught, or I will lose my stuff." It doesn't teach children to stop the behavior, just to do it so they don't get caught. Plus taking their stuff away just pisses them off and they will try and get it back.